Showing posts with label musings. Show all posts
Showing posts with label musings. Show all posts

Wednesday, September 14, 2011

History & children... when is a good time to mention war?

Chances are, if you have elementary school-age children, you're familiar with the AR book system. Each school designs their own "system" of developing book levels and requirements necessary to receive certification for those levels. Mika's reading Classic Reader books, which means she has to read three books (for each level) that are at least a 6.0 reading level and worth at least 7 points. To give you a point of comparison, Harry Potter & the Chamber of Secrets is a 6.7 book level worth 14 points (you can view AR books here).

Since we are avid readers, we push our girls to read a lot. However, with a young reader, it's very difficult to find age-appropriate books. She's been reading a lot of "old" books (right now, she's reading My Friend Flicka, written in 1941) but she's not willing to read longer books like Anne of Green Gables, despite my best efforts (well, the font is pretty small and apparently, that's a big deterrent). It's getting harder and harder to find her books to read, that will capture her interest.

At the library's used bookstore a couple of weeks ago, I stumbled upon a copy of Farewell to Manzanar (6.7 reading level, 7 points), an autobiography of a woman who entered the Japanese American internment camps at the age of 7. This is a very well-known book and despite taking several Asian American classes at Berkeley, I never got around to reading it. Since a school teacher friend of mine and I often discuss the Freedom Writer's Diary (and corresponding books like Zlata's Diary and other relating to the Holocaust), I thought this might be a good introduction to civil rights issues for Mika. I chatted with the bookstore's volunteer, a retired high school teacher, about when he thought a good time to introduce the impact of war to children was - and he recommended that I read the book Night (by Elie Wiesel) - a survivor's account of the Holocaust (I read it and it was an excellent read - and unbelievably heart-wrenching). As a high school teacher, he definitely thought middle school was a safe time but my father always spoke about the Japanese-Americans being relocated from the time I was little - the latest he could possibly have introduced the topic was when I was in 4th grade (back when the concept of "the model minority" flourished).

I just finished Farewell to Manzanar this morning and I think Mika should be able to read and grasp the concepts - to a certain point. As one of the few Asians growing up in my midwestern city, I knew from a very young age (3?) that I looked different and hence, people would treat me differently (though racial slurs flung at me, have significantly decreased since I left my midwestern hometown at age 18). My girls, however, don't seem to see people in colors, which I find very interesting. They laughingly told me that some of their friends had told them they "look Chinese" - they thought it was totally funny and... untrue! When I told them that they were half-Japanese and half-Taiwanese/Chinese, they were actually speechless for a few seconds.

And suddenly, I knew my kids were going to have a cultural identify crisis later in life. My best friend in college (a third-generation Chinese-American) once told me that she didn't realize she was Asian until she was 13, since she grew up in a predominantly Caucasian area. Based on my own experiences, I found that impossible to believe - until now. Oh, well... I'm glad that they're enjoying a childhood relatively free of racial discrimination, at least!

So, I wonder what kind of thoughts and realizations Mika will come away with, after reading this book.... but at the same time, some of the important issues still remain. Look at the effects of September 11th - lest you think American society is able to look beyond skin color, you might want to read this blog post of a housewife that was arrested on September 11, 2011... and the dismaying thought that 50 other similar incidents occurred throughout the country...

Wednesday, June 22, 2011

A Blast to the Past

I'm always amazed when I meet people who still live near their high school - they are constantly running into old classmates and stay relatively up-to-date on their happenings. What is that like?! Since I went to school in the Midwest and haven't been back in years, it's all become a fuzzy blur. In fact, just last week I received our alumni newsletter (for the entire district, which included 4 high schools) and was flabberghasted. Although I saw pictures of my class' last reunion, I could barely recognize anyone! Of course you can spot the people who were unkind to you, popular people who were surprisingly kind, or those who became famous later (like the Sklar twins), but what about everybody else? It just blows my mind - that I could forgot so much and/or that people can change (over time) to become unrecognizable. Freaky!

For those of you who love sketches as much as I do, YSS featured a new (to me) site this week: Sketchabilities. You can even download pdfs of previous sketches!

Speaking of scrapbooking, every once in awhile, it's time to re-organize! I was delighted when a fellow CC'er mentioned a blog called Crafty Storage for inspiration. With this bum knee of mine, I've got to clean up so I can walk around the room without hurting myself! :)

Tidbits:
If you're in the mood for some retail therapy and hate to pay shipping, you might want to check out the "free shipping" section at Cost Plus World Market. I love to browse through this store, but with two little kids (one of which that likes to touch everything - and is clumsy to boot!), it makes it an anxious trip. Don't forget to go through Ebates!

Saturday, January 8, 2011

Sure wish I had bigger feet...

Usually it's not a bad thing to be petite, but sometimes I wish I had bigger feet. Last month I finally got up the gumption to buy some top-of-the-line soccer cleats (I'd never spent more than $20 on a pair before - it's hard to convince myself that I'm worth it) and wouldn't you know it? When we went, the store owner said they only make them from size 4 youth and up! What size am I? I'm a size 3 youth (women's size 5 - though I'm probably a 4.5). When I asked him to show me the best thing he had in my size, he pointed at some $30 cleats - for kids. Well, what can you do?

But today, I saw these B-E-A-U-T-I-F-U-L boots in an online ad. Yes, I do like wearing heeled boots because they make me taller. There, I said it - I admit it! Unfortunately - they don't make 'em in my size! ARGH! I guess I'll live... 3.75" heels are a little hard to handle, especially when you're as clumsy as myself. =) But, wow! I'd be over 5'3" tall!!!

Tidbits:
1. Michaels printable coupon for 40% off any regular-price item (1/9-1/15/11).
2. Check out your local Big Lots for Basic Grey merchandise! My local BL had Euphoria collection packs for $5 (retail = $19-$20 at least). They also had some clear stamps for $3, some bling-it-on for $0.50, and rub-ons for $1. My friend scrapper al's BL had Indian Summer, which made me jealous, so I may have to go check out another BL... =) If you need more convincing, you can also find some youtube videos from people showing off their BL hauls...

Sunday, October 24, 2010

Are you a clutterer?

The lady who owned my previous favorite scrapbooking store (she went out of business) recommended the Unclutterer Blog. It's interesting to look at, but today, they posted about an up-and-coming designer who has developed a line of products designed to hide everyday and private things. You can view the short video clip here. Some of the ideas are ingenious!

I like organizing and buying organization products. Of course, though, when you change products, you're left with the old stuff. What do you do with it? I put it in my hall closet, which is leading to more problems, I'm afraid.

It's now beyond time for me to organize that hall closet. I can't find my fall decorations (they are in there somewhere) and basically, I can't find it because there are 3 huge Christmas presents (unwrapped - which is why they're hiding in there - I can't believe the girls never open that closet!) right smack in the middle of the way. Plus, I've also noticed that Daddy Dude likes to stick stuff in the closet when he can't figure out where else to put it.

Well, I'll just have to do it. It's hard to believe that in another few weeks, it'll be time to put up the Christmas decorations. Where does the time go???